How to Open Your Church as a Shelter in 10 Faithful Steps
A Practical and Pastoral Guide for Congregations Considering Shelter Ministry
Blog post by Clint Schnekloth in Lutheran Confessions (substack)
Introduction: A Faithful Yes
Before anything else, shelter begins with intention. Not a vague good intention, but a deep yes to God’s calling to make room in the inn. This guide is written for congregations who sense that call, and want to walk into it faithfully.
You don’t need to become a full-service agency overnight. In fact, the idea that you need to do that is probably one of the primary barriers to beginning.
And you don’t need to open your doors to everyone all the time.
You just need to begin. You probably already have what it takes to begin offering shelter to someone.
Step 1: Say Yes (Discern and Intend to Shelter)
The first move is spiritual and communal: listen for God’s call and respond with intention. A church does not become a shelter by accident. Leaders, both ordained and lay, need to cultivate shared vision and prioritize shelter as a ministry of the gospel.
Turn-key Actions:
Pastor and key staff need to ask themselves if they’re ready to start saying yes.
The congregation might commit to shelter by becoming a sanctuary church or developing indoor resources that turn a church into a large home.
Have council and staff explore shelter ministry seriously by looking at other churches already committed to this work. We’re always happy to answer questions here at GSLC.
Step 2: Expand Your Imagination of Shelter
Many churches stop before they start because they assume sheltering people must mean opening doors to everyone, always. But trauma-informed, community-based shelter means starting with thoughtful boundaries, dignity, and care.
Turn-key Actions:
Talk to the staff of area emergency homeless shelters about trauma-informed care and boundaries.
Define shelter theologically and practically: not as "rescuing," but as shared community.
Read case studies (or ask questions of us here on the blog!) to expand possibilities.
Step 3: Envision Who You Can Serve
You likely can’t serve everyone, and that’s okay. But you can serve someone. Begin by discerning who God is already putting in your path: LGBTQIA+ neighbors? Young adults? Families in crisis? Immigrants?
Turn-key Actions:
Map your congregation’s existing relationships and networks.
Identify community demographics most underserved.
Clarify a “target population” that fits your capacity and mission.
Step 4: Build a Referral & Onboarding System
Rather than a wide-open model, use referrals from trusted partners. This protects both the church and the people who seek shelter, and ensures support networks are already present.
Turn-key Actions:
Develop an intake form with referral partners (can include background checks).
Identify a list of local nonprofits, schools, or congregants who can refer people.
Clarify referral boundaries: what types of cases you can or cannot take.
Step 5: Create Your Welcome Process
Welcoming well is its own form of hospitality. Think beyond “providing a bed” to offering relationship, safety, and predictability.
Turn-key Actions:
Build a checklist for intake: tour, house rules, contact info, welcome kit.
Create a short “resident handbook” or covenant. Create an online church calendar so residents can anticipate in-facility events.
Develop a simple process for addressing conflicts and needs.
Step 6: Evaluate Your Physical Space
Many churches already have kitchens and couches, but expanding to formal shelter may mean installing laundry machines or showers, upgrading entryway security, or fire safety adjustments.
Turn-key Actions:
Do a walkthrough with a facilities person and shelter lens.
Ask: Where would someone sleep? Shower? Lock up belongings?
Apply for local grants or start a campaign for needed renovations.
Step 7: Operate as a Co-Living Community
A church shelter isn’t a hotel. It’s more like a home. Residents may decide to share meals, develop shower and laundry access schedules, and the inevitable beauty and tension of human proximity.
Turn-key Actions:
Set a rhythm for check-ins (we use a group text thread), gatherings, or chores (if appropriate; we ask our residents to somewhat supplement the work of the custodian).
Name expectations and roles clearly (residents, staff, volunteers).
Adapt as you go: house rules evolve from real needs.
Step 8: Start Small and Learn As You Go
Don’t wait until the plan is perfect. Let the first guest in. Learn from that experience, then expand. Make mistakes. Adjust. Stay in learning mode.
Turn-key Actions:
Pilot with one or two guests for a duration that works for all.
Debrief with church leaders and the guest(s) afterward.
Revise policies incrementally, not all at once.
Step 9: Foster Healthy Relationships
This is not just a service, it’s shared life. Create mutual, consent-based ways for residents, volunteers, and members to get to know one another.
Turn-key Actions:
Host a monthly potluck or storytelling night.
Train the whole church and the residents in healthy boundary-setting and trauma care.
Ensure resident privacy and voice in decision-making.
Step 10: Stay Creative and Trust in God’s Provision
You’ll be surprised by what you and your residents can build together. Maybe someone lives in a car in your lot. Maybe someone earns their GED. Maybe joy sneaks in where fear used to live. Stay open to grace.
Turn-key Actions:
Keep a journal or blog documenting your learning.
Build connections to food pantries, clothing closets, mutual aid, therapists, doctors, employers.
Say yes to small, unexpected moments of neighbor-love.
You don’t have to be everything for everyone. But you can be shelter for someone. If the church is Christ’s body, then the body has room. Start with one. Let the Spirit do the rest.
Some of our residents have said that living at the church feels like living in a mansion. And in some ways, it is. Not because it’s fancy or pristine, but because it’s spacious, quiet, safe. Because there’s light in the hallway and coffee in the kitchen.
So if you’re wondering whether this could work at your church, let me tell you: it could. And it just might change everything for the better. Not just for someone you shelter, but for you, too.